I have been remarkably fortunate to reach my thirties with three
living grandparents, especially when all of them were born before things like
penicillin, television, and the Great Depression. And I have been even more
fortunate to have them all be an integral part of my life for all of that time.
Which I suppose is what makes it so difficult to, for the second time in a
little over two months, lose one of them. My grandfather and namesake (one of
them - I'm named after both grandfathers) lived a fairly remarkable life over
ninety-two years.
Richard Lee "Dick" Ranger was the second son born to Allen and Mildred Ranger in Swampscott, Massachusetts, a North Shore town of about 13,000 people that was one of the first beach resort towns for wealthy Bostonians (back before it was merely a suburb of Boston). He spent his boyhood tagging along as the kid brother with Don's group of friends, as the Ranger house was a central meeting place for many of the boys in town to get together on a given day.* They organized challenge games of football or baseball or pond hockey against boys from the neighboring towns of Lynn (to the south) and Marblehead (to the north) for bragging rights, and practiced for those games. The annual Thanksgiving Day high school football game (Thanksgiving Day games between archrivals were long a Bay State tradition) between the Swampscott Sculpins (now the Big Blue) and Marblehead Magicians (now the ‘Headers) was a major event that my grandfather, great-uncle, and most of their friends either played in or cheered on.
*For any Valdezians reading this, the Ranger house was effectively
the Graika house of Swampscott, although I don't know if you could extend the
parallels exactly to make Gage my uncle Don and Casey or Skylar my grandfather.
Nearly all of the boys from Swampscott enlisted when World War II
came. Since the Ranger house had always been a central meeting place, his
father offered to gather everyone's addresses and keep people informed of
comings and goings with a newsletter that connected all of these young men as
they shipped out from basic training to North Africa or Sicily or the South Pacific.
On the front page of one of these newsletters, he printed a picture of the
Swampscott police station, accompanied by a verse: "Roses are red/Violets
are blue/Please hurry home/We are waiting for you." Some did not, or they
came back injured. Don's life, for one, was forever altered when he took
shrapnel in the back during the first few minutes in the invasion landing on
the beaches of Saipan in mid-1944 (he was a Marine).
My great-grandfather Allen Ranger sold coal throughout northern
New England in the early twentieth century. New Hampshire’s Dartmouth College
was one of his most important customers. Not a college graduate himself, Allen fell
in love with the beauty of Dartmouth’s campus, and determined to send one of
his sons there.* My grandfather, growing up on the North Shore, had his sights
set on Harvard from the time that he was aware of college, but his father wore
him down with family camping trips in New Hampshire until he too fell under
Dartmouth’s spell. So Dick enrolled at Dartmouth College shortly after turning
17 in 1940, and it was impossible to know my grandfather without learning of
his incredibly passionate loyalty towards his alma mater, where even though his
undergraduate years were interrupted by almost three years of wartime service, he
was president of his fraternity, played intramural hockey, and was a member of
the Sphinx, Dartmouth's oldest secret senior society. He similarly inspired his
son, my father, to follow in his footsteps to Hanover.
*Dartmouth is an upper-echelon campus in
terms of beauty, and the setting in Hanover is picturesque.
With World War II looming, Dick spent nights doing eye exercises
with a pencil so that he could be selected for the Army Air Corps, because he
felt that flying would do more to help win the war than just fighting in it.
Not coincidentally, by 1943 it was pretty clear that serving in the infantry
meant uncomfortably high odds of going home in a box. The exercises worked, and
my grandfather got into flight school, enrolling in March 1943 and going to
pre-flight training in Costa Mesa, California, back when Orange County was a collection
of small farm towns and oilfields. He was more or less immediately enraptured,
and shifted his New England loyalty to southern California for the rest of his
life.
After completing flight training, he joined the 345th Bombardment
Group, the "Air Apaches," in January of 1945 as the pilot of a B-25
Mitchell bomber. The B-25 Mitchell was one of the transformative weapons of
World War II. It became so when Major Pap Gunn, an engineer of the 5th Air
Force (based in Australia), discovered that by removing the bombardier from the
"greenhouse" nose of the plane, he could install eight forward-facing
.50-caliber machine guns, turning a rather ordinary medium-load bomber into a
devastating low-level strafer. The revamped B-25 could attack enemy ships at
mast height, using those machine guns to suppress defensive fire and skipping
their bombs (like a stone on a pond) much more accurately at their targets.
This change in armament eventually would have major ramifications for my
grandfather.
During a low-level bombing mission over Taiwan (then referred to
as Formosa) on April 19, 1945, my grandfather's plane got its right engine
knocked out by a 20mm or 25 mm anti-aircraft gun near a railroad bridge three
miles northeast of the target, which was Japanese shipping along the west coast
of Taiwan from Tainan City to Taichung City. Unable to deploy the bomb bay due
to the damage, Dick made a strafing run and used the emergency system to drop
his payload off the coast before turning and flying back with an escort back
towards the Philippines. Often flying very low above the water because of the
dead engine, he piloted his plane across the almost four hundred miles of
mostly open ocean between Taiwan and the island of Luzon in the Philippines
(parts of which were still very much under Japanese control). He crash-landed
(the landing gear was also damaged) near Laoag in the northwest corner of Luzon
with minimal further damage to the plane and none to the crew, for which action
he was awarded a Distinguished Flying Cross, an award of which he was very
proud.
One of the lasting effects of my grandfather's war service was a
sense of wonder for all the beauty and variety that the world had to offer.
From the cockpit of his B-25, he saw the mountainous jungles of New Guinea and
the crystal blue waters of the Philippines, the beaches of Vietnam and the
small rocky islands that get bigger and bigger as one approaches Japan. This
appreciation for the world did not exclude his own country, which he had been
exposed to throughout his flight training, particularly California and
Colorado. Upon returning from the war, he finished his degree at Dartmouth
(along with business school) and went to work for Ford, a company to which he
retained almost as much loyalty as to Dartmouth. He married Carol Roland from
Nahant, Massachusetts in 1950 (her father, Phillips Roland, had attended Dartmouth
in the late teens of the twentieth century but did not graduate) and they
settled in Marblehead, where my father was born two years later. In June of
this year, my grandparents celebrated sixty-five years of marriage together.
My grandfather's work as a marketing executive took them all
across the country and beyond; Marblehead; Detroit; Charlotte; Richmond; Orange
County (Tustin); Detroit again; Sao Paulo, Brazil; Detroit a third time; and
finally retirement in Orange County. As they moved around, he got into trailer
camping, so that the family (which expanded to include my aunt Pam in 1960)
could go further and spend more time on the road, since there was no need to
set up a tent. Long road trips with no A/C had zero effect on him; he loved the
journey all the same. And he took thousands of pictures, turning most of them into
slides (although he unfortunately never learned how to properly edit his
collections, which led to some rather long presentations). In retirement, my
grandparents graduated to an RV (a Ford, of course), which they took all over
the country, including to Alaska during one of our first summers there. His
favorite line about travel in the USA, which he would repeat to anyone, was
first told to him by German tourists that they encountered at the Grand Canyon,
after asking them what brought them to the states; "You go to Europe to
see what man has created, but you come to America to see what God has
created." That line stuck with him.
I get much of my passion for athletics from my grandfather. As
stated above, he played intramural hockey at Dartmouth, and as long as he
skated he never did so without a hockey stick. His chief joys were golf in the
summer and skiing in the winter. He had absolutely no use for golf carts, which
might as well all have been manufactured by Chevrolet as far as he was
concerned. He followed golf intensely, pulling first for Palmer over Nicklaus,
and then Nicklaus over Watson, as if (in my father's words) he had bet the
mortgage on them. He loved college football, especially the fun-to-watch UCLA
teams of the late nineties and the Pete Carroll USC teams, and he always
retained some Michigan loyalty to Big Blue and the best uniforms in the sport.
The opening of football season and New Car Introduction Week generally happened
at the same time, which was always cause for elation. Ninety percent or so of
the time that the television was on, it was to watch sports: football in the
fall; basketball in the winter; golf or tennis anytime throughout the year,
with my grandfather watching from the same overstuffed leather easy chair
pointed directly at the television, frequently with popcorn or Trader Joe’s
potato chips.
My grandparents spent about thirty years on the same cul-de-sac in
Dana Point, one of the southernmost towns in Orange County, and became very
involved in their community. They had the only pool on the block, which all of
the kids on Rachel Circle (there were roughly twenty of all ages) were welcome
to use provided they asked (and if pool usage came with a side of my
grandmother's brownies, so much the better). They spent over two decades
volunteering with the police department as members of a bike patrol along the
beaches and the harbor area, assisting tourists and the like. Both of my
grandparents retained significant athleticism into their old age; they
celebrated their fortieth anniversary with a bike tour of France’s Loire
Valley,* and my grandfather could still throw a perfect spiral pushing eighty. Until
his health started betraying him, he spent at least half an hour on an
old-school wooden Nordic Trak every morning in the garage, and my grandmother
has been a dedicated and strong swimmer forever.
*Major anniversaries for my Ranger
grandparents were celebrated with a big trip somewhere. They were off in Mexico
for their twenty-fifth when my dad, attending the Keelers’ twenty-fifth
anniversary party as the Ranger family representative (my grandmothers were
roommates for a time after college), went on his first date with my mother.
I spent a couple of weeks every summer with them as soon as I was
old enough to fly solo, and they took me all sorts of places: Angels games in
Anaheim; the La Brea Tar Pits; the Santa Ana and San Diego Zoos; the driving
range; and most frequently, Salt Creek Beach at the bottom of the high bluffs
of Dana Point, where we would boogie board and body surf for hours. When we
stayed home, I played in the pool at all hours (I loved water from a very early
age), often with several of the other kids on the block, almost all of whom
were either a couple years older or younger than me, but who were also friendly
and welcoming (the Nathanson boys, two doors up the street, were particularly
tolerant of someone who was, if memory serves, two, four, and six years younger
than them). Or I spent the entire day, except for a lunch break, playing basketball
at the park with Kevin, a boy across the street and one door down who was a
couple years younger. You will notice that all of these destinations were of
the outdoor variety. That is because both of my grandparents were among a
subset of New Englanders who worship the sun “like Aztecs.”* The whole reason
that they retired to southern California in the first place was because, as my
grandfather told a fellow Ford executive, he wanted to be somewhere where his
toes could be tan.
*Another line cribbed from my father. If
you have read much of my work or know me at all, you understand that Richard
Lee Ranger, Jr. is a pretty giant influence in my writing. Consider that a
citation for this whole post.
My grandfather had a low tolerance for bullshit or excuses. As we
have seen, he believed golf courses were meant to be walked, not ridden on.
Having grown up in New England, he felt that encountering blue ice or the
occasional rock while skiing was merely part of the experience, although once
he discovered Colorado powder he felt that nothing could compare. After seeing
his father (a two-packs-a-day smoker) die of cancer in the sixties, he quit
smoking cigarettes cold turkey, although he allowed himself an evening pipe
before bed as long as I knew him. Whenever he suffered a physical breakdown, he
followed the rehab instructions to the letter. He was not the type to sue when
a surgery went wrong, as one did several years ago on his leg when the surgeon
touched a nerve, limiting his mobility and hampering his balance. He soldiered
on, and being fiercely independent, declined any assistance unless it was
forced on him. It was not until he was past ninety that he could be persuaded
to move out of the house on Rachel Circle, which was a difficult house to
manage for someone who had mobility issues.
He had some quirks. I would be remiss in reminiscing about my
grandfather without mentioning that you did NOT want to discuss politics with
him under any circumstances, especially not if you had any leanings toward the
Democratic Party. He is responsible for what my family calls "the Ranger
Rule" when it comes to watching sports; an inveterate supporter of
underdogs when he had no other rooting interest, my grandfather was infamous
for declaring games over ("That's it! That's the balllllgame."), even
if it wasn't yet halftime, or the fifth inning, or whatever, when he felt that
a game or match was out of reach. He would not acknowledge his advancing deafness
later in life, meaning that you had to use an outside voice with him if you
wanted to be heard. And the pain of his last years frequently made him
difficult, although he continued to undergo whatever treatment and perform
whatever rehab was necessary.
In the end, however, my grandfather was an inspirational man, who
worked hard throughout his life and retained a curiosity and fascination with
the great wide world that led him to travel to dozens of places, from the Upper
Peninsula of Michigan and the Grand Canyon to the savanna of East Africa, and
the tiny dots of the Marquesas Islands. He was resourceful, successful,
and principled. I remember him as a great grandfather who enjoyed telling jokes
and trying to sneak food from my plate at the dinner table when I wasn’t paying
attention. He was an inspiration to his two kids and grandson, particularly
when it came to exploring the world around them, and after just over ninety-two
years, he is at peace. He would be thrilled to know, and it is only fitting,
that for the first time in decades, Dartmouth finished first (tied with
Harvard) in the Ivy League. If there is indeed an afterlife, I can’t think of a
better way for him to start it than to open the sports page and see the Big
Green on top. Love you, Grandpa.
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